Abt growing up.

He's just not that into you.
haha.. it was a funny movie.
and when i say funny, i dun mean it as hilarious.. but how it all seems funny when you recall with reference to real life events.
in short, it was simply a satire.
and it did provide some insight, and affirmed certain observations i've made. lolz!
feels good that "great minds think alike" has indeed been fulfiled today.

but of course, guess good things dun simply come for free everytime.
today was a weird day.
a day with series of unfortunate events.

first i got awoke by a series of sms...
one was to seek reinforcement
the other tempts me into a dilemma... and thank god the situation left me with no choice.. else i'd give in as usual given my great love for mahjong.

went to lunch late cos of some windows update prob.. think i should get it to the it care centre asap to see what can be done...
anyhows, met up with shuyi, tgt with jas and jh for the movie.
and it was totally bad fortune.. when all the seats were filled quickly.
as a result, we had to watch the 7pm show at the cathay..
but then again, perhaps it ain't really simply bad luck.. maybe could have booked the tix before hand.. but then again.. perhaps like what the movie said, people all love a lil drama in their lives i guess. *shrugs*

ended at 9 odd, with waysi calling me in the middle of the movie. followed by wesley.
totally had me worried for 5 mins, fearing for the worst.. and thank god it wasn't... and i shall not speak of it in view of being pantang. and guess who i saw...
j c
such aa coincidence... totally made me at a loss. should i say hi or should i just act blur cos i;d prob be ignored... i dun rem leaving any fond memories. i think i suck at bad situations.. esp those which all parties will be at fault.. i dun do well in minimizing the amount of wrong stuff i do.. something not right is initiated and i simply let the wrong things happen instead of taking the best possible action... in other words, succumb to temptation and in the end, make a ugly exit.

it happened in the past and it happened again. but this time at least i have been more justified. since i had declared to be in a bad mood, relentless taunts had been made. and then i decided to pull no more punches and to spare the rod no more. guess people are just like that.. not everyone appreciates anymore.. many take things for granted.
since when has being treated nicely been an entitlement? by what virtue of the recipient is the grace entitled? is it not instead a virtue of the giver? this has failed to be understood, let alone be appreciated. understanding manifests in action, not in the mere words "I do...."; the same case for appreciation. guess sometimes, somethings are simply phases of life where one has to go through, only after having been there, done that would one realise.

sometimes, things are quite simple. before playing, just make sure you are game for it. else, don't play. perhaps sometimes, some people need love most; even more so than others.